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Thanks for checking out my blog. Welcome to Living and Learning!
My inspiration to blog stems from a love of writing and belief in the power of shared stories.
I cover all sorts of topics including Relationship With God, Child Development, Adoption, Parenting,
Homeschooling, and Mental Health.
My hope is to inspire, share, and encourage.




Stop Hijacking Conversations!
Yep, too many adults are thoughtless on this one. Join conversations don’t take them over. Hijaking a conversation can drain the excluded/booted out person’s self worth. You may well have started them shaking trying to plan an unnoticeable escape. They may feel the shame that rightly belongs to you. There was a time when this would have broken my heart. Now, I walk away shaking my head thinking, “not my people, wouldn’t want them anyway.” I’ve found better. We can all be bet
Janet
Nov 21 min read


MY WORD OF THE DAY: AUTHENTIC
The what, why, and how of authenticity?
Janet
Oct 240 min read


I’ll Be In My Comfort Zone
My Thoughts for Today: Comfort zone? I don’t agree with that term. We each have a unique personality and temperament. Sometimes asking someone to get out of their comfort zone is an attack on their very being. I used to put pressure on myself to “get out of my comfort zone.” After countless efforts to “get out of my comfort zone” it never became easier. Instead, I was left with anxiety, self doubt, and loss of self esteem. I’m quite confident that one of my first acts of self
Janet
Oct 151 min read


“They Just Weren’t Thinking”
The groups all gathered and a few are new. Newbies stand aside not knowing what to do. Old friends talk with their comfort crews. The...
Janet
Mar 312 min read


Successful Life Grading Rubric
Servant’s Heart Compassion Integrity Diligence
Janet
Mar 311 min read


Eternal Priorities
Here's the verse that keeps me going on this homeschooling journey! "For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, and loses...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


“How Lord?”
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances? Whoa, that's a tall order! How do I rejoice always? Conviction hits...
Janet
Mar 313 min read


The True Meaning of Family
Family is so much deeper than blood relations. When I think about it, adoption has been around almost from the beginning of time. Joseph...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


Care Boldly
Tired, hot, and thirsty I sat on the church patio. Several tables away a man was talking with friends. He approached convinced I was sad...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


My Testimony
I was raised in a Christian home and knew about Jesus from a very young age. However, I didn't fully understand the gift of grace He...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


A Picture of Love
God speaks into our lives in new ways each day. He recently revealed His love to me through the love I have for my child. Finding my...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


It’s Good They Don’t…
My dad recently made a comment that changed my course of thought. I'd been griping about an important action my child didn't take. As I...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


Thievery of Preconceived
The Gift of Received Preconception steals compassion and breeds judgment. My heart drops as I watch. Preconception speaks words from the...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


Grateful or Grumbly
What's Your Attitude? Headed off to the beach with Joy, Kevin, and my sister on Sunday afternoon. Arriving just steps from the beach the...
Janet
Jan 311 min read
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