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Thanks for checking out my blog. Welcome to Living and Learning!
My inspiration to blog stems from a love of writing and belief in the power of shared stories.
I cover all sorts of topics including Relationship With God, Child Development, Adoption, Parenting,
Homeschooling, and Mental Health.
My hope is to inspire, share, and encourage.


Stop Hijacking Conversations!
Yep, too many adults are thoughtless on this one. Join conversations don’t take them over. Hijaking a conversation can drain the excluded/booted out person’s self worth. You may well have started them shaking trying to plan an unnoticeable escape. They may feel the shame that rightly belongs to you. There was a time when this would have broken my heart. Now, I walk away shaking my head thinking, “not my people, wouldn’t want them anyway.” I’ve found better. We can all be bet
Janet
Nov 21 min read


MY WORD OF THE DAY: AUTHENTIC
The what, why, and how of authenticity?
Janet
Oct 240 min read


It’s Good They Don’t…
My dad recently made a comment that changed my course of thought. I'd been griping about an important action my child didn't take. As I...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


Thievery of Preconceived
The Gift of Received Preconception steals compassion and breeds judgment. My heart drops as I watch. Preconception speaks words from the...
Janet
Mar 311 min read


Think
"They Just Weren't Thinking" The groups all gathered and a few are new. Newbies stand aside not knowing what to do. Old friends talk with...
Janet
Feb 92 min read


Give “Quiet Ones” a Chance
It's your loss if you jump to judge the "quiet ones." Let me tell you what you may be missing. 1. You'll never find a better listener. 2....
Janet
Feb 91 min read


Communication Advice from the Mind of an Overthinker
MY THOUGHTS FOR TODAY: Communication Advice from the Mind of an Overthinker- The brain of a deep thinker will not rest without clarity....
Janet
Feb 91 min read


Hear Stories!
Really try it. I have heard some of the most interesting stories this way. Some people will pour their life out to you in a matter of...
Janet
Feb 92 min read


Friend Group VS. Cliques
It's important to me that my children know how meaningful "seeing someone” can be. People who took a minute to look outside their comfort...
Janet
Feb 91 min read


How Are You???
Sometimes I overthink about random stuff. Today my mind is asking, what's the point of how are you? Hastily answering "I'm fine" is...
Janet
Feb 91 min read


Emotions- A Gift From God
My Thoughts for Today: Emotions- A Gift from God During my granddaughter's visit the topic of emotion came to mind. My 15-month-old...
Janet
Feb 91 min read


It’s the Simple Things
The older I get the more little things upset me. However, the older a get the more tiny things delight me. I used to hold off until I had...
Janet
Feb 91 min read


Speaking Love Too Lightly?
My thoughts for today- raw/unedited First off in this writing I'm speaking of love in the broad sense (such as for acquaintances,...
Janet
Feb 91 min read
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